"Back in 2001, Bruce Willis stared in one of my all time favourite movies, a film about a gang of bank robbers, called 'Bandits'. This movie had a famous scene in which Cate Blanchett's character exclaims to Joe Blake and Terry Collins that she is unable to choose between them, because together, they make the perfect man. Now, even though I am aware that Nicolene is not a man and neither she nor Nick are bank robbers, this scene was still playing off in my mind, when I first